The Pegging Guide for Beginners

We’re not talking about hanging out your washing, far from it…  Pegging is the sexual practice where a woman fucks a man with a strap-on, but really, you don’t actually need to use a strap-on during pegging.  Continue reading for the full guide below.

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What is pegging?

The simplest way of describing pegging is when a person without a penis anally penetrates a person, normally with a strap-on.  More straight men are getting into ‘butt stuff’ due to realising the pleasure that anal play can give them.  Prostate massagers are now super popular and can be hugely pleasurable – they stimulate the prostate gland from anal penetration in men, giving a more intense orgasm.

For women, the pleasure can often come from the feeling of power and control over the man, that shift in ‘power’ as well as physical pleasure.  Physical pleasure usually comes from her grinding her pelvis into his behind, stimulating her clitoris.  Most harnesses also have a pouch where a bullet-style vibrator can be placed (check out the review we published on Loving Joy Power Bullet).

Why do people do it?

Um… Simple – as above, it feels good!

Have ‘the talk’

Surprise butt stuff isn’t always welcomed.  An open conversation about what your partner and you want and expect from pegging, it’s a good time to raise any concerns you have and talk them out.

Not sure how to bring the conversation of pegging up?  Talk to your partner about it, you can even ask some questions like:

• What are your thoughts on anal sex and anal play?
• Do you ever do anal play whilst masturbating?
• How do you feel about me penetrating you?

You’re both up for it? Great

Okay, so you’re both up for trying it out, but now what?  As we said, you don’t necessarily need to use a strap-on during pegging, many sex toys will work just fine for you.

Dildos are great for pegging, they don’t vibrate or offer any type of motorised stimulation and usually look like penises.  When you’re pegging your partner with a dildo, you’ll likely be manually thrusting it with your hands or you may use it as a strap-on.

Vibrators are another good option for pegging.  If your partner likes the idea of being pegged with a vibrator, you’ll probably want to guide him around the types of sensation you can get from a vibrator and what he can expect from it.

Strap-ons are hugely popular amongst those who are into pegging.  If you don’t already have a harness or strap-on, make sure the harness fits the toy you want to use.  Many harnesses offer double penetration, in the fact that there’s a portion of the sex toy that’s meant to be inserted into the vagina, whilst the other section is for the anus of the partner being pegged.

Shop together

There’s a wide range of sex toys available on the AdultWork.com Official Stores.  Search for some of the items we’ve mentioned in this guide and don’t forget the lube.  As, with any type of anal sex, lube is absolutely essential, you can’t have too much of it and it shouldn’t be forgotten about.

How do I do it?

Foreplay first – don’t just jump straight into shoving your toys into each other, it’s gonna hurt.  Start with a little anal foreplay and don’t forget to lube-up (check our other article ‘The Anal Sex  Guide for Beginners‘), make sure you’re spending your time on foreplay.  It’ll help ensure you’re both relaxed.

Lube, more of it.  Remember how we said it’s essential?  Once you’ve ensured the lube is compatible with your toys, make sure you use a lot of it.  The more you use, the less penetration will hurt your partner.  Oh, and add a little extra for good measure too, this goes for foreplay too.

Slowly does it, this goes from just talking about pegging to performing it.  There’s no race to penetrate your partner, go slow.  Doing this will ensure you’re able to gauge how comfortable your partner is – remember, it’s probably going to hurt a little at the start but this goes away the more relaxed he is.

Your thrust – if you’re the one doing the penetrating, pay particular attention to how you’re doing it.  Certain positions, motions or depths might not feel great, whereas others will have him in seventh heaven.  Ask your partner what they like, what they’d like you to do and you’ll likely be onto a winner.

Your rules

As amazing as pegging can feel for both participants, it’s not going to be for everyone.  So, like in our anal sex guide, if you’re not into it, don’t do it.  There are so many other ways to give and receive pleasure.

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