Are you a Couple Looking for a Third?

From Three’s Company in the 1970s to throuples and unicorns in 2021, adding a third participant has fascinated us for a long time. While monogamy might have its own advantages, getting in a third partner can add excitement and rekindle the lost spark in your sexual relationship. The best part is that you don’t need to have a committed third participant either. Today, there are great choices for escorts who can spice up the night for you, without any long-term commitment.

So, if you are looking to add excitement to your relationship, take a look at some things to keep in mind while choosing a third person to be a part of your sexual experience.

Do it for the Right Reasons

The first question to answer is – why are you doing this? Are you looking for a way to offset some jealousy? Do you want to spice up your sex life without threatening your monogamous relationship? Are you trying to divert yourselves from an existing problem in the relationship? Remember, a threesome cannot solve problems. But it can definitely add spice to sexual experiences, if both partners are equally interested in the threesome.

Check How Both of You Feel

Communication, they say, is key to a successful relationship. This is especially true when you are trying something new. Remember to keep checking in with your partner about their comfort level. You could even consider a conversation each time you are preparing to choose a third participant. This will also help you understand what your partner needs and desires. In fact, a threesome can be a great way to discover your own body, what arouses you and what your partner enjoys. This can be great for the long-term success of your relationship.

Decide on the Gender Split

If you are a heterosexual couple, this becomes important. Which of the two of you wish to explore same-sex arousal? Do you want to mix things up and start with one gender and then explore the other? What is the comfort level for both of you with each gender? You might decide to check how you feel by choosing an escort from one gender first and then from the other the next time around. After both experiences, it might be time to check in with each other and decide what works best for the two of you.

Make the Choice Together

Go through the profiles and résumés of escorts together and discuss what you like or dislike about each one. Both of you should be equally interested in the escort you choose. So, physical appearance might play a key role in your choice. Don’t settle for someone you don’t feel attracted to. It will ruin the experience. This applies to both partners.

Our Final Word

If you are looking to rekindle that lost spark with a threesome, you aren’t alone. A 2020 study revealed that 4 out of 5 people who had engaged in a threesome had done so while in an exclusive relationship. In fact, researchers say that a threesome could work as an “outlet” for a monogamous relationship, strengthening the bond between the couple. So, go ahead and give your relationship the boost it needs by making a thoughtful choice for a threesome.


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